Our journey to Ebony in China, and then life with her at home in Australia. 'ADOPTING A CHILD WON'T CHANGE THE WORLD, BUT FOR THAT CHILD, THE WORLD WILL CHANGE!'
Saturday, July 05, 2008
Have I mentioned how beautiful the place I live is????
Wednesday, June 25, 2008
To her mama she's precious and perfect...18 months on
You know this is been the wildest, most amazingly wonderful ride of my life.
It's had the occasional dip I'll confess - but not many and not for long.
My we've come a long way.
I look back on the photo of our first moments alone - when I cried silent tears for the horrible and sad journey that had brought me to this moment AND for the 16 months and 5 days that I had missed of this precious child's life. Thank God she was in His hands ultimately.
taken BEFORE the tears flowed....
Now, my little cherub comes to me and puts a sweet, beautiful chubby hand either side of my face and plants the most spontaneous and wonderful kiss on my lips.
She comes up to me and says 'cuddwle' and then, when I pick her up, she holds on to me like there's no tomorrow.
Now she is my very best 'little' friend.
I've spent much time reflecting on what the last 18 months have held.
I just love Ebony so much. I can't possibly even imagine or contemplate life without her.
She is at, by far, the most fun stage ever.
She is so sweet - so gentle, so loving and so polite!
I am so truly blessed to have her in my life.
Many say she is blessed - I say she has filled a huge hole in my heart and she alone has put an end to the sadness and sorrow of the many years leading up to now.
I and I alone - am the luckiest one by far.
Saturday, June 21, 2008
Another 'walk' in the park
Then there's the visit to the bakery afterwards and then the first time ever meringue - what I can't show you is the fall that my little darling took from the heights of a stool. I have no idea how it happened but she ended up on her rear end with a shattered plate and very broken meringue. Thankfully she did nothing but chuckle!!! and the owners supplied her with a new meringue. Her mummy, on the other hand, almost needed medical attention :).
Thursday, June 19, 2008
Monday, June 16, 2008
Wednesday, June 11, 2008
Time for a catch up !
I've been going back through some photo's and couldn't resist posting these. They were taken at kinda gym - which Eb just loves. She took the 'lid' of one of the toys and put it on her head.....she looks more Chinese than ever I think!
Tuesday, June 10, 2008
Bendigo
Running around the Museum and having a ball!
Some of the amazing colour at the Museum
Then we went to the gorgeous park opposite the Museum where the girls had fun feeding the fish and hugging the statues!.....
Feeding the fish
and hugging one of the statues
most of the mums and dads and one of the little Cherubs - Eliza
our little cherub eating as usual!
and sitting on another statue
Then it was of to the 'Beechworth Bakery' for some lunch then home for a sleep.
Later in the day we all met at the playground and the girls played while we chatted, ate etc. It was a fun time and great seeing the girls together again. Then it was back to our cabins for some sleep.
Fun at the playground
Sunday we went for a fun ride on the 'Talking Tram'. It was great seeing all the little girls and their different antics. I really enjoyed the trip although I don't remember much of the commentary I must say! We then went to the 'Foundary Arms' (I think) for lunch and the girls had lots of fun playing, eating etc. The mums and dads also had a lovely meal...even if it wasn't exactly peaceful (those days are gone!). Then it was home to give the girls a nap, then we all met for nibbles again. We had a couple of families come and visit that night and Eb ended up having a bit of a late night - but we had fun!
All the girls on the talking tram
Vicki, Camille and Tim
Col, Meiya and ????Mandy
Jim, Eliza and Kate
Dick, Ruby and Wendy
Eb on the tram
....and playing
lunch out
Eb and Ruby just before bed
Then it was our final day and we decided to get up and at 'em early and check out a location for a group photo - of course it wouldn't be the 'normal' group photo because one of our precious little sisters wasn't there - but we had lots of fun anyway. We found a temple just near the Museum and it was the perfect place for the girls to have some fun and for us to get some photo's!
A fun photo coming over the bridge
and all sitting together
some pictures don't need words :)
Mummy and her girl
Enjoying her first ever Hungry Jacks on the way home
It was a great weekend - we all had lots of fun and we're still amazed at how well the adults get on. Mind you - with 6 gorgeous girls like we have, who needs an excuse to get on well together. It will always, ALWAYS be so special to me when I see these little ones...and as they grow older....together.
Saturday, May 31, 2008
A holiday to remember - Narooma with my parents
My little angel sleeping in the big bed
Then waking the next morning
Trying to play hide and seek before we left
650kms later we arrived on Thursday to see the final few ends of my Dad bowling. We had a lovely 7 nights and it was real joy to see Eb spending time with her Pa and Nana and them all getting to know each other better (and Dad and Mum learning to understand Eb’s gabble!).
For me, one of the greatest joys was spending really great quality time with my girl. Every day, after Eb woke from her afternoon sleep, we went for a walk somewhere. Sometimes it was just around the streets and sometimes to a park. One day we walked 3km (yep Eb walked it!) to the ocean and had a wonderful time on the sand and taking photo’s.
While we’ve been away Eb’s learned to say ‘fwight’, she’s answered OK to a question, she’s started to tell me when she ‘hurts’ herself, she got to enjoy her first ever chocolate donut! – she learned that to wave to someone is different to the waves on the ocean – she learned to play ‘stop’ and ‘go’ when we’re walking – she frightened the life out of me a number of times on the wharf when she got a bit close for comfort and kept wanting to ‘lean’ into the water – she happily lay in bed with me for ½ to ¾ hour after she woke while we waited for 7am before we got her bottle – she played beautifully by herself often and didn’t watch too much TV – she tried on all of Pa and Nana’s shoes – she did LOTS of singing – she looked at the ocean and said ‘washing’.
It was such a special time - a special holiday. Very different with 'daddy' not being there - but we coped ok. The weather was very kind to us and I just loved having really carefree time with my little girl - thanks to my precious Dad and Mum for making it possible. I love you both.
Reading with Nana
Very cute photo of Eb mimicking Pa
Sweet princess
Checking out the scenery
and the play equipment
couldn't pass up a photo of the spectacular views on our walks
too cute
first ever merry-go-round
and first ever chocolate donut!
a cuddle with mummy by the ocean
hip-hip-hooray beside the 'aussie map' in the rocks at Narooma
just a cute shot
a final walk with Nana
and finally, the last photo of Pa, Nana and Eb just before we left to come home.